YIKES.
Even though my parents are pretty much paying for the whole thing, they've told us to do whatever we wanted, within a reasonable price range.
FH's parents are actually the slightly pushier ones (and with some really... interesting... ideas) but luckily I've been able to avoid having to do things their way because they're not paying a cent.
No Zillas of Any kind for me
(oh... by the way... regarding the whole Videographer thing... thanks for the support, ladies! I wish I had taken down his company name so that I could have made sure
everyone knew how he'd treated me, but I was so shocked I just walked away. The kicker is... most of the videographers in our range are like $500 - $1000... so this guy must think he's really some hot isht to be asking that much. Price does NOT always equal quality!!!!)
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