We all have to realize that organizations are much BIGGER than the Sally, Jane, Mary, and Sue who are members of that particular chapter...
Why would you want to change your mind about a particular organization and go to another after you have already expressed an interest with that organinzation? That seems kind of odd to me...I would have to question YOUR intentions.
In life, we come into contact with all kinds of people. Some of those people will espouse our ideals, while others will not. Does that mean that when there are issues on the table and noone likes your opinion, will you jump ship?
I feel like, if your heart is in a particular organization, then that is what you want. And that is what you should go for. Not everyone acts or behaves the same way. What will happen if you become a member of this OTHER organization and you meet some members who act the same or worse as the ones you have mentioned? Then what?
I think you need to seriously evaluate why you want to become a member of a sorority.
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