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Originally posted by De6
I am a teenager and in time I will have expenses of my own.My other aunt is taking me to open a bank account without them knowing,then,I do NOT have to deal with the stress.
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What type of "expenses" can you possibly have? What are you gonna do with a checking account? To be honest, it is my understanding that if you are under 18, you must have a parent or guardian sign for your account (and I don't think that includes an aunt). Where are you going to get money to sustain this account?
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Originally posted by De6
Paying bills is NOT my responsibilty when I am trying to prepare for my senior year of high school,because when I want to do senior activities,then,I have nothing coming.I have to look out for me.Sure they will give me the money,but I have to get attitude,once again I do NOT except them to do anything.If they will let me keep my money,they would NOT have to worry about me asking them for anything.Not saying that I will never fall and need some help,but I will never learn to stand on my own,if they do NOT let me.I will be going off to college soon and right now I have a little over $100.00 to my name.Grant it,I am spoiled,but I am NOT so spoiled to the point that I can NOT help others.But,I am NOT stupid enough to keep helping people(even family)if they choose to carelessly spend their money.I am NOT a leaning post for the CONSTANT mistakes of others.
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Since when are teenagers exempt from bills? Honey, I am not that far from my teens, and I know that I kicked in the phone bill. I was the one on the phone most of the time! How can you claim to be preparing for the world and make statements like that? Baby, the real world is
ALL about BILLS! From what you post, I think that you may be helping to make the situation worse. You say in your post, "I know that I am spoiled" and it kind of shows. You are making moot points and I think that's why everyone is so baffled by your posts. I can't begin to tackle all the contradictions....
Anyway, if you feel that God is your guiding light, why do you continue to bring it up? Ever heard the phrase, "Let go and let God"? If you are gonna keep worrying about it, then you haven't really put it in God's hands. Let it go. Instead to pointing fingers, look to make sure that you don't play a role in this whole mess yourself.
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