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I had a bad habit of letting the bullshit fly out of my mouth when talking to girls. I was real good at getting what I wanted and telling girls what they wanted to hear. There've been a few times those three words came out pretty damn early, say 2 months into it all. Each time I wasn't sober and it slipped...I know it sounds bad but I justify it all on the account I never retracted those statements. Anyhow, the bad thing about those three words is that relationships always take a bad turn after that comes from someones mouth. Either the girl freaks out, you freak out, you start cheating on her or she starts cheating on you. Then there's the other side of it all where you just start acting like you're both married after "I love you" is said and you seem to go through what it's like to be married...( the worst possible scenario that can happen by saying I love you, trust me). It's all fucked up in my opinion. Then there's the commitment factor and fear of being tied down, from either the girl or the boy. Then there's rejection side of "I love you", someone tells you they love you and you kinda just sit there while you're bain is trying to figure an apropriate response if any at all. There've been 2 different occassions where girls have told me that and my brain actually locked up. I just sat there. With one of them I couldn't think of anything better to say than...."Thank you". The girl started crying and went back to her apartment, it sucked and killed whatever it was we had going on.
I do want to point out that there is that little period, assuming both of you tell each other those three words, where things go pretty good. If you ask people honestly, it doesn't last long before they start having second thoughts.
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