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Originally posted by Hootie
I'd keep the info to myself. It'll only cause problems and ruin friendships and relationships. If you're not close to him as you are to her then your alliance should be with her...and that means if you're a friend and you don't agree with what's going on you should tell her off....NOT HIM. He's not your alliance and going to him with this is like stabbing your friend in the back.
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Ditto. Plus, if you aren't very close to him, he might well question your motives and your honesty. That may cause him to ignore your well intentioned warning, besides pissing her off. In my experience, even when warned by a good friend with only their best interests in mind, most people still have to see it for themselves.
I would continue to encourage her to talk to him, and do nothing beyond that. He'll discover the truth for himself eventually.You have no real pressing reason to get involved, and it could land you in a heap of trouble.
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