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LadyAKA · #1 05-12-2001, 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by VctoriasSecrt11:
you are absolutely right...finally...

"IF" you are serious how can we help ?

VctoriasSecrt11 · #2 05-11-2001, 01:33 PM

YOU cannot help me in any other way except to r.e.s.p.e.c.t. me and not bring up the past...trying to move forward...

but...since you have pulled me back...why don't i make the best of it and use this as an opportunity to help someone else avoid my pitfalls...

you can help me and other propectives in this way...yes...after you cross you do have knowledge that non-greeks do not...but don't ASSUME that because someone is not greek that they are lacking in knowledge...also...if someone is standoffish...there is probably a reason...do not assume you know the reason and that they are not serious about choosing an organization, therefore don't try to force them to choose prematurely...also, if you have certain rules, regulations, or bylaws as you may call them that are set forth by YOUR organization and someone chooses to follow those laws as an undergraduate...do not penalize them for following YOUR rules...if i can think of some more i will gladly post my thoughts as you already know...

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quietstorm23 · #3 05-11-2001, 01:38 PM

VS,
how can you expect anyone to respect you when you have not SHOWN or earned respect. Respect is a two way street, and right now you are walking ALONE!

CrimsonTide4 · #4 05-11-2001, 01:48 PM

VS11,
Did you know that as of 1:40 p.m. EST, you have 196 posts under a name that you have only possessed for ONE DAY.

How can you expect the ladies on this board to respect you when you have come into their forum and disrupted the flow and harmony of the room. To GET respect you must first GIVE respect. As you posted, TO WHOM MUCH IS GIVEN, MUCH IS EXPECTED. You have been given a lot, now it is time to return it POSITIVELY.

You say we really do not know you but from what we have been shown, it is nothing GOOD about you that we can say or see.

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Advise and counsel him; if he does not listen, let adversity teach him.

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VctoriasSecrt11 · #5 05-11-2001, 01:49 PM

respect is not EARNED...it is LOST and regained if necessary...

AKAtude · #6 05-11-2001, 01:51 PM

In that case, your lost it because we have none for you here.

VctoriasSecrt11 · #7 05-11-2001, 01:52 PM

it is sad that you feel that way...that i have lost the respect of bglo greeks because i have not relented in standing up for my rights...you do not represent ALL of alpha kappa alpha therefore you definitely do not represent even a minute influential portion of all bglo's...and because of that, i can side step your remark,...but it is sad that you feel that someone that stands up for their rights doesn't deserve respect because they are standing up for their rights against a social institution as opposed to a political institution or entity...i cannot separate the two...they are one in the same...

once again...thanks...

talk about lack of discretion...hmmmmn...

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AKAtude · #8 05-11-2001, 01:55 PM

You can only blame yourself.

VctoriasSecrt11 · #9 05-11-2001, 02:10 PM

blame myself for what?

surely you are not inferring that i blame myself for being hazed and then reporting it and then settling it and then moving on but then having people that think they know but don't bring it up every time they read an opinion totally unrelated to hazing that rubs them the wrong way...is that what you are talking about akatude?

so far, i have not called one of your sorors out of their name or belittled them...only challeged them to think about themselves...but i have been called:

crazy
sick
scizo
dillusional
paranoid
and now...i get to add a devil from the pit of hell according to shalom...so you do the math...

p.s. shalom...if this is so true...have you ever noticed how certain glo's hardly ever have trouble on their boards...just a thought...

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Conskeeted19 · #10 05-11-2001, 04:52 PM

i am just banging my cup on the table!

AKA2D '91 · #11 05-11-2001, 05:01 PM

Well, seems like you all had more drama here than I did at work!

I'm banging my c

up on the table, too!

Serenity · #12 05-11-2001, 07:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by VctoriasSecrt11:
blame myself for what?

You really don't know?

Seriously?

That, in and of itself, may be the problem.

tickledpink · #13 05-11-2001, 07:43 PM

What in the world is going on? Step away from GC for one day and all hades breaks loose.

Soror AKAtude, I sent you an email.

AKA2D '91 · #14 05-12-2001, 09:28 AM

Hopefully, our melodrama is over with!

I'd like to apologize to all of the GC family who had to endure this "ya-ya" for the lack of a better word. Now, we should get back to the business of our usual discussions, etc.

For those of you out there thinking that you will come to GC and act an a$$, think again. There are steps that can be taken to handle the situation appropriately. It may take a little time and work, but it is possible.

I have attempted to "clean up" those threads that were interrrupted.

TRULY, moving on...