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Originally posted by twinstars
I don't understand the rationale behind making a huge deal out of who you choose to be your first, and then being much less picky about the ones that follow (if there are any). If sex was a really big deal in your eyes, then why would it be less of a big deal just because you've moved on to another relationship? Maybe it seems like a bigger deal than it is if you've never done it before...
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i very much agree with twinstar on this! i have always felt that sex is very special and that although i never thought i would wait till marriage, i knew that i wouldn't sleep with every guy i ever met/dated! although i was kind of young when i lost my virginity, i can still count on one hand....and although i would never ask them to do this (nor have i ever discussed it with them)....i bet my parents can name them!! if you view sex as something very important for the first time...then i think that it should be important every time...but that is just me!
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