This is going to make me sound like a total wench...
If a guy asks me out, I expect him to pay. Of course, I always have a little extra money with me, just in case he's not been trained well. I've never really had a problem with this, though. It might be because I've lived down south, where traditional gender roles are still predominant.
I like guys who hold doors, pay for the check and open the car door. Call me old-fashioned! This may be why I am still single, though.. Hmmm