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I have thought about this long and hard...
I have been around a number of women who expressed interest in XYZ sorority, and I have found myself in some of the most awkward positions because some people THOUGHT I was well connected. Even though I may know certain people I have to work hard to obtain information for myself. Key word :WORK HARD. So if the person or persons that I affiliate myself with are not willing to "work" then I won't share a dern thing!
SF, some people try to maneuver information out of you because of sheer laziness. ( Just read DeRe's post, DST thread)
Discretion is the key. You can't tell everybody everything. If it was that easy then it would be an open membership to anybody. Finding the information is the fun part! Sharing experiences and bonding with other women have similar intrests as yourself (i.e. gaining a degree, career,etc.) is what's more important than just your whole conversation being XYZ!
Beware of people who do that (talk about XYZ everytime you see
them) she may be the person to NOT share info with. just my .02 cents.
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