Um why not do just a champagne toast? Serve a couple types of punch and maybe sodas in cute antiquey bottles (I saw that @ a wedding once. Very cute!). And then of course coffee and tea. This a)keeps the cost down and b) keeps people from getting tanked. I played at a wedding where 75% of the guests were sh*tfaced by the end of the first hour of the reception. They would come over and talk to me while I was playing. No, not talk. Slur and spit would be a better term. It was disgusting. Champagne is classy, and even if you had something sorta pricey at least the bottles will serve 4 or 5 people. (just an fyi: Spanish champagne has gotten trendy in the last couple years. It's not too bad and it's waaaaay cheaper than other countries' champagnes.) I've been to so many different styles of weddings, and I really favor the simpler ones. I want to feel happy and comfy not miserable and stiff. Barefoot wedding on the beach would be awesome
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