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Our chapter isn't even 10 years old yet (charter in 1996) so our oldest alum are only in their late 20's (so not old, I don't want to call them old, Cherub I love you), anyway, back to my post. I love our alum and it's not often that I get to see them so I would love if they could come down more, and hang out, or whatever. I would to hate to think that once alum reach a certain age they are no longer welcome to spend time with their chapter. Now I'm not saying that at 40 I want to come down every weekend and cougar it up at the bars with the 19 year olds, but I would like to come back occasionally and spend time with my chapter at rush, and help if they needed it, or join in in some of the philanthropy events, and even attend the formals.
On the other hand, I have several friends from work that are in their late 30's or early 40's and they are so much fun to hang out with and I can go to the bars with them and just have a good time. I think it all depends on their reasons. It might be a little weird if their trying to relive their youth, but if they come to spend time with people they call brother or sister, then what's the problem?
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