What does it all mean???

[Lady Pi Phi]

Originally posted by James
However, I did get the impression that Lady Pi Phi wants a deeper relationship with the boy and wants/thinks that he desires likewise.

Yeah, you're right James, I do want a deeper relationship, but if he doesn't I want him to be honest with me, I'm willing to except brutal honesty in this situation.

More likely, he didn't hook-up and felt inhibited a little looking around because he is somewhat invovled with you. Maybe even a little guilty.

Then when he got back he felt guilty about NOT hooking up. And probably blames you a little. Which is why he said something to you.

Maybe, but that's not fault. I am always under the assumption that he doesn't want more, and I've even asked him what I am to him, and he always says friends, but then he'll tell me he's been celibate, not once, but several times. If he doesn't want anything from me, why won't he go out and find some other girl? When we've been "off again" he's asked me if I was seeing anyone and I have said yes, and when I ask him he's said no. All I want are some answers from him, and I can' get any from him because he always gets so defensive when I try to talk to him about this. If he doesn't care about being in a relationship with me, why does he tell me he's remained single, didn't hook up when he was in Cuba? What does it all mean. I just want answers.

You know what, I must be insane.