What does it all mean???

[James]

I can see where Texas*princess is coming from but if I may ofer a slightly differing guy perspective?

About T*P's point number one. I read lady pi phi's story and nowhere did I get the impression that the boy in question wanted a deeper relationship. Or that it was his desire for a deeper relationship that may have kept him celibate in Cuba.

However, I did get the impression that Lady Pi Phi wants a deeper relationship with the boy and wants/thinks that he desires likewise.

As to T*P's point two: He may have hooked up but if he did he probably wouldn't have said anything at all.

More likely, he didn't hook-up and felt inhibited a little looking around because he is somewhat invovled with you. Maybe even a little guilty.

Then when he got back he felt guilty about NOT hooking up. And probably blames you a little. Which is why he said something to you.

You see guys are strange creatures. We kind of believe that if we don't really try to hook-up with a girl, it means we could have had her if we had tried.

Its an odd assumption, but there you go.

Anyway, thats probably what it meant.

Originally posted by texas*princess
I'm no relationship expert, but I think it can mean 1 of 2 things:

1. He really likes you enough that maybe he didn't fool around w/ anyone else because he wants to take your relationship 'to the next level' (and by telling you what he told you it was your little clue)

=OR=

2. He actually did fool around with girls there, but put up the defensive and told you he didn't just in case you cared.


*hehehe* OK, so I'm not professional, but that's what I think
Boys are weird and mysterious.. I don't think we'll ever figure them all out. Have you noticed that for every ONE relationship question on these boards that come from a guy asking about a girl, there are 500 questions on the boards coming from a girl asking about guys? See? We'll never figure 'em out