Well, if it is your choice to support your friend through her choice to have this child, then you should pray about it and ask God to remove your sense of discomfort about the situation so that you can "be there" for her wholeheartedly. If there are things that you don't feel comfortable supporting, such as hosting a shower and/or being godmother, then speak up and gently explain why.
Personally, I don't know how I would keep from telling my friend that I thought her choice to get pregnant and have another child, while not married to the father, was not a good one. However, I hope and will pray you have more restraint than I.
[This message has been edited by Discogoddess (edited December 01, 2000).]
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