Resplendent: You read it absolutely right, I would not want him to tell me. It would not be necessary. When men cheat, their actions following the incident usually tell on them anyway. They are either extremely nice or extremely distant afterward. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, I would know in my heart if he cheated. And at this point in my life, I am dealing with so many other issues that to have him come home and tell me he cheated would probably break me. So, I would rather not know. Now, if later, I feel like I want to know if he has been faithful, I would simply ask him. It is a "don't ask don't tell situation" and I am very cool with it. Long distance relationships are tricky.
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