I would tell no doubt! It's better to have a relationship based on honesty than to have a relationship based on lies and besides what if you decided not to tell and one day down the road it slipped out or someone you confided in told or slipped out of their mouths. Then you would have to ecplain yourself and then he would leave you for not tellin him and trustin him to make his own decisions on whether to stay with you or leave you. And then what if you found out that you two could have worked through this. That would have made you feel even worse because you would tell and the honesty wasnt there. And what if you were on the verge of marriage or even engaged?!! There goes your relationship. So, I would be straight up and honest and tell my man look this is what happened. And another thing what about your conscience?! Wouldnt that eat you up inside??!
Well thats my take on this matter and sorry to be so blunt, but this is a huge part of life and growin up. Its time we start actin our age and not our shoe sizes! Be mature and most importantly do the right thing!
Peace and one!
Queencece
P.S. Hope this helps!
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