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Without getting into a theological discussion about marriage, or sex for that matter, this guy is a jerk! Sex does not "happen." This guy chose to have an affair. His clothes didn't come off by themselves!
Marriage is not 50-50--it's 100-100. If one woman wasn't enough for him or if one woman couldn't fulfill his needs, he should have never gotten married. He is self-centered and cruel. If he spent as much time on his marriage as he did on the affair, maybe he would have had a better marriage.
Let's not excuse the mistress either--she did witness the marriage, so she knew he was not free. Was she hoping he would divorce Wife #1 and marry her (or was she in it for the conquest)? What a prize he would be!!! Since he had an affair with her while married to someone else, what would make her think he wouldn't have an affair with someone else while married to her?
It's like chewing gum in school--no one thinks the teachers know, but they do. The wife might not have known what was going on, but she knew something was wrong. It's my guess that this guy couldn't have cared less if his wife found out. I hope she can get on with her life. She needs to be tested for any diseases he may have brought home to her.
This makes me so angry for the wife--sorry if I rambled a little or got a little self-righteous. Stepping off my soapbox now.
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