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OK...the latest is that she's agreed to pay for her family and his attendants only. I'll pay for my side of it and the minister, etc. along with flowers and invitations for everyone invited. I almost would rather her pay for nothing because atleast then she could claim they can't afford it, even though we all know they can.
My parents are so upset because they feel like it's "US vs. THEM," which I think has hurt their feelings. We really wanted for everyone to get aloong, but I think that we might just live in two different worlds! Jason is the most angry and is trying to figure out some way to pay for it all plus the rings and honeymoon, but I just don't see that happening. I think my parents would rather pay hoping they feel bad for being so rude about it, and his mother has been very rude!
I have tried my best to be nice to ignore the whole situation and to be a lady, but I can't say it's been easy! Sometimes I want to yell at her and tell her to grow up, but that's not my place or my job. I can't figure out if I'm just super angry or just really hurt, but it doesn't matter because I win in the end. I'll come out of this entire wedding situation happy, and that's what counts!! I'm only getting married once, so I'm going to have as much fun as I can while I plan it!
Thanks for all the advice!
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