Is he too cheap?

[Lady Pi Phi]

Well, here's my $0.02...

Traditionally, the cost of the ring should equal 2 months salary...that is the custom. Over course, you can spend as much or as little as one likes or can afford. The cost of the ring doesn't equal how much the man loves you. I don't know his financial situation, so I can't say.

Now you say the ring is ugly. Well in my opinion, if this is the ring is ugly, this looks like that this guy really doesn't know this girl at all. If they have never discussed each others personal tastes, what else don't they know about each other? Maybe the 2 of them need to step back and look at the big picture. They probably aren't ready to get married.

As for the snooping. If she was snooping, that's in poor taste and it looks like there are some trust issues. If not, accidents happen. What's done is done.

Frankly, if this is such a big issue for the girl, the 2 of them need to sit down and have a long conversation about their relationship.