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I think this is a good topic for a thread, Adrienne.
While I hardly had a "heartbreaker" experience in Rush (I guess you could say I'm one of those who ended up where she was meant to be), I do have one thing that goes along with this topic.
If you're going to be a Rho Chi, don't lie. Please do not tell these poor young women that "there is, like, no way in the world that you won't get a bid" or "you are the one who is choosing US, don't worry about getting cut". I heard both of those things from my Rho Chis and that was just untrue. After the very first night, I was cut from two sororities. It was very strange to me because I had been told over and over again that being cut, ESPECIALLY after the first night, wouldn't happen. Many other girls in my group experienced this the next night, when they only got invited back to two sororities on a 3-night.
So ladies, I understand that you don't want to scare your PNMs, but be honest at least. Prepare them for what could be a huge disappointment... because I can imagine that many girls in my Rho Chi group didn't know what to do when their bid card didn't have the "right" sorority on it.
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