what have i done....?

[James]

Disclaimer: I have only heard your side of this lol.

You can tell a lot about a person by how they handle the lows and highs of life. In fact you really don't know someone until you see them under those conditions. The worse the better.

Almost everyone is going to be pretty good when things are going well or average. So if they are miserable, moody or snippy when things are normal you should run as fast as you can.

The highs and lows tend to exagerate traits that are always present. This guy is insecure and probably always had control issues, they may just not have seemed as bad before. Under stress they come out a lot more.

It gives you an insight into his character, because these things don't get better with time they get worse.

Anyway. Over has to be over. Think getting over addiction. If you go cold turkey you feel really bad for a while, then less bad, but its eventually out of your life.

If you keep going back to your addiction you just get to keep prolonging feeling bad for a much longer time with even more pain, because the good highs won't be there anymore.

So call block the persons number, screen your calls, block their IM's and every other conceivable way hey could contact you. Also forbis your friends to mention him in your presence. Most friends are ghouls anyway that bond through tragedy.

And if you keep in contact with him stop bitching and complaining. There is nothing more boring in life than someone that is unable to stick toa good decision.