Non-greek Friends

[CarolinaDG]

I think with all things it's a choice. I went through with two of my friends from freshman year... One went DG with me, and the other one got cut first round and ended up dropping out because DG was her first choice. At first I think there was a little bad blood, but we got over it. She's been up to the DG hall a couple of times to have lunch with me, and she thought about COBing Kappa for a while, but in the end, I think she's happy doing what she's doing outside of greek life, and I perfectly understand that. It does take work to see each other, mainly because I live on the hall and so most of the time if I want to go out or eat dinner or something, I'll grab the nearest sister around and go rather than calling up my friend, but that's the same with my greek friends as well... I have a ZTA friend who even though she just lives downstairs, I usually only see her by accident, because it's so easy not to call and arrange something. My non-greek friend and I still study together and call to gossip and stuff like that. I'm sure you'll be just fine, just remember that it may get tough at times.