Hello Sorors, Frat, and friends
I truly believe that men and women can be good friends without there being any sort of attraction. I feel that the young man should have told you he was getting married, especially if you guys were so close and just friends. I don't know, maybe he was unsure of how his significant other would react. But on that same note, I wonder why his significant other would not know how close you two were. For example, I have a male friend who I have known since the 4th grade. We are now 25 years old. When he met his now significant other, I knew about it and she knew about me, even though we did not meet for almost 2 years. We were in different places. However, When she moved out to where we both were, she knew exactly who I was and when he'd call me or I'd call him, I'd say tell XXX hello. And she'd say "hello" when are you coming by so we can go out". His signifcant other and I are cool friends and we chat on the phone. They live together and sometimes I call his home to speak to her. We go out together and she has even made comments like, "you know you are in the wedding, you're his best friend." So,I think in those situations, like Professor has said, there should be no insecurities. HE and I have known eachother for ages..... Just my $.08...
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