Who's turn is it?

[pinkyphimu]

Originally posted by FAB*SpiceySpice
If I like the guy, I like to have the control in the whole "calling" thing, and plus guys to me always seem to turn out psycho and scary right away, and I don't like the idea of them being able to get ahold of me whenever they want. Call me paranoid maybe, but I just don't like it. [/B]

i do the exact same thing!!! i am kind of a b----, but i usually throw away the number at the end of the night. when i was in college, you knew someone who knew the guy you met...it was a small school. now, i really don't want to meet some guy at a bar. i guess if i met someone that i really felt a connection with, then i would think about keeping the number. but, i never show up at a bar in the hopes of meeting someone!

as someone already said, i know from the first time we meet if there is something there. i hate to waste my time or someone else's. i don't play games and i refuse to pretend there is something if there is not.