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Originally posted by bluz4
sometimes hell, we as women (us baggage-carriers), need to be told that too.... can i get an AMEN????
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AMEN AMEN AMEN!!!!!
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Originally posted by korkscru
I realized that it wasn't MY "stuff", it was HIS.
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Girl, I am learning this lesson now!!! It took a while, I internalized EVERYTHING, and took it ALL personal. Because when your feelings are hurt, it is personal, y'know? But it dawned on me (literally, as I was driving one day) that there really is nothing wrong with me. Not my stuff.
I agree with pretty much everything that has been said. Closure is definitely needed, or no friendship will exist. The most recent ex and I, I wouldn't say we were friends, but we can be civil towards each other. The same with other ex's. But I talk to none of them on a regular basis.
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