A pledge with a kid?

[DGWannabe]

First of all there is no national stand point on new members with children. Secondly, if she did lie, she may be afraid of others being overly judgmental (Is she wrong?)Lastly, one of my pledge sisters had a child-but she gave it up for adoption. How would you expect her to answer a question like that? Yes, she had a child but no she doesn't have one now? I really don't think it's your business. Do you ask all the pledges if they've had abortions or if they're virgins? You better be careful before jumping into these waters. A girl that had a child went through rush and she was very open about it, only one sorority invited her to anything-now she is panhellenic president and the BEST sister and person. I wish we had given her more of a chance....