|
do not lose heart
I understand the situation that you are going through. My chapter just recently went through the same situation just last week. Only this was only one girl and I didn't bring her to the COB event. It was another one of my sister who has been busting her balls (mind the vulgarity) trying to actively recruit new women for our chapter. However, at this event, one sister felt that the potential rubbed her the wrong way and another wanted her to come to more events before we extend a bid. Some of the reasoning were logical, but the potential felt the dislikeness and told the girl who brought her that she felt that two of the women did not like her. My sister was so distraught by that that she seriously considered disaffiliating (I know I should probably give more details, but I'm not sure how much I could say.) Anyways, what I told her is the same thing that I am going to tell you. Do not lose heart. I know now seems like the perfect time to give up, but think up the other sisters that look up to you as an example. I know it's hard to keep a smile on your face when all you want to do is scream and yell and throw something against the wall. If anything you should tell the sisters that is giving you "s***" that should try to get to know the new members. When I joined, some of my sisters rubbed me the wrong way. But as weeks and events passed and I got to know them more. If anything, I just learned how to work with them in order to keep this chapter functioning. I hope this help. I really don't know what else to say
|
Hybrid Mode
