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for the record, i'm not saying you have to drink, or that they have to drink, or that there have to be boys involved. i'm just saying sometimes people feel more comfortable when there are other people around, rather than being one girl with tons of sisters.
some, not all, girls might find it intimidating. before i joined i went to one of these things for another house alone, and it was scary! it's just an idea - and of COURSE you wouldn't bid a girl just because she came to a party. do sisterhood stuff with her after she gets to know the girls in a more informal atmosphere... i think the most important thing is for the PNM to feel comfortable. bowling and dinners and stuff are great ideas too, just as long as the girl isn't nervous, is all i'm trying to say.
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