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No, no... that is not polite at all! The caterer should serve the cake and punch! If these people are important enough to be at your wedding, they should be sharing in the joy and celebration of it.
I think having people handing out programs is okay because it is before the ceremony and the reception, so they don't miss out on anything... or having them do a guest book. After all, you want someone friendly and nice giving all the other guests a good first impression. However, I have to say that in my circle, it is sort of looked on as the "fifth-runner-up" postion... it's what people give to people out of obligation (like to a cousin, or an acquaintance/friend from work), not because they are close.
Here's another question... have you ever had a friend who had their "less attractive" friends do the guest book even if they are kind of close, just so the pretty friends are the ones in the pictures? I have heard of that happening... how sad!
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