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No!! There is absolutely nothing wrong with you Melissa! I am sure you are a wonderful, beautiful girl with a great heart. I know I am only echoing what everyone else said, but you cannot base how you feel about yourself on what happens during rush! I really want to encourage you put house three down.
The long personal story may have caught you off guard, but during prefs that is really what you are supposed to do. I am like you in that it would make me feel uncomfortable too. But the girl was probably rushing like she was told too.
You can't really get a good idea of what sorority life is from rush. Rush is this big huge production, but when it is all over you get to have fun and no one is putting on a show any more. So basically I am saying not to drop house three because of a bad night when you said previously that you had liked them before prefs.
I know it is up to you, but I just feel so horrible for you! I COBed, and I wasn't sure if sigma kappa was the house for me, i didn't really feel like i connected with them at first. But then I realized that if you give it a chance, it will become what you make of it. Please reconsider Melissa!!! And more than anything else, PLEASE dont' think you are poorly of yourself!!! We all are pulling for you and hope that whatever happens makes you happy!!
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