wishinhopin:
I pledged a local sorority and am happy to say that when we did rush (or what we call pre-smokers and smokers) what was most important was to fill the girls in about what the SORORITY is about...
It wasn't about having girls who are rushing going out with different frats (or even our brother frat) before even getting to know the active sisters!
I think you are right to feel the way you do. Afterall, you want to get a feel for what this group represents and is like and if you are comfortable with them. You can't get a good feel for that if you go out with frats you don't even know about before even learning about the GLO you want to pledge!
But that's just my opinion from when I pledged my sorority... We have both locals and nationals on my campus and I can't recall any of the GLO's there doing what you have described.
However I think RACH_GD is right... Once you are in the sorority might be the best time to make suggestions or try to make changes.
But if this is the way this particular sorority opperates, you may want to think about if this is the type of group you want to be with... Hope this helps.
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"Once a Kappa, Always a Kappa" ...Kappa Gamma Chi
Emerson College Boston, MA
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