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Originally posted by Lizanabavi
Going out to mall with your ex-boyfriend, or calling him just to say "Hi". Stop!!! When you do that, in the back of his mind he always thinks he can get you back.
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I agree with this whole heartedly. I have a friend going through this today. She wants to know why she can't find someone else worth something. How can you still tied to your ex. Yes, calling and still communicating with your ex ties you to that person in my opinion. That is one of the problems my ex has now (why can't we be friends). We have one child and if the conversation is not about our son, then we have nothing else to talk about. What we have is a business relationship, not a personal one. That does mean be nasty and rude. I will always be courteous, polite and respectful until actions require me to behave otherwise. I need him to understand that I am gone and not coming back. If I am all up in his face, trying to be his friend he may not clearly get the message.
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