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Old 05-22-2021, 08:48 AM
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See, here's what fries my mind:

If Pi Phi was looking for a handy way to drop the problem of having more legacies than spots in new member classes, the way to do that and manage to infuriate loyal alums was to drop all legacy privileges, then claim they were doing it in the name of diversity. Virtue signaling at its worst--loads of money and alum support were lost, plus diversity is likely to go down as chapters won't want to pledge women whom they know nothing about.

If they were hoping to solve the problem of recruitment committees having to read hundreds of recs by announcing that all recs were out the window but claiming it was "so that they could increase diversity", they blew it again. I actually had some idiot tell me that the idea was that no one would know any woman at all until she walked through the door on the first day. Chapters are now doing their best to find out the tea on PNMs by phone and email, and who can blame them? I have had several calls from chapters already about local PNMs.

This has been a massive fail, both putting a much heavier workload on chapters and offending alums, often the ones who have been their biggest financial supporters. Good luck in keeping the big McMansions in repair.
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Old 05-22-2021, 10:33 AM
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Let's not forget that the dedicated alumnae who aren't completely turned off by the state of affairs will most probably STILL send letters of recommendation.
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Old 05-22-2021, 10:39 AM
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If I am understanding this correctly, Alpha Delta Pi is still accepting recommendations. The form can be found online, or a personal letter about a PNM is permitted.

There are changes in legacy policies, what with the sheer numbers going through recruitment, but most fall under "I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you" spectrum. OF COURSE, ADPi is still thrilled with recruiting Legacy PNMs!
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If I am understanding this correctly, Alpha Delta Pi is still accepting recommendations. The form can be found online, or a personal letter about a PNM is permitted.

There are changes in legacy policies, what with the sheer numbers going through recruitment, but most fall under "I could tell you, but then I'd have to kill you" spectrum. OF COURSE, ADPi is still thrilled with recruiting Legacy PNMs!

Hi there. My daughter needs a rec. She will be going into first grade next year and will be in the gifted program. She wants to be a veterinarian some day.
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Hi there. My daughter needs a rec. She will be going into first grade next year and will be in the gifted program. She wants to be a veterinarian some day.
Give me a call when she's a senior in high school!
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I am speaking to a group of A&M pnms, and want to be sure I have the correct information regarding recommendations. Going to websites, this is what I have found (please correct me if I am wrong):
Alpha Chi Omega – recommendations from alumnae
Alpha Delta Pi – recommendations from alumnae
Alpha Epsilon Phi (does not participate in formal recruitment)
Alpha Omicron Pi – recommendations from actives and alumnae.
Chi Omega - recommendations from alumnae.
Delta Delta Delta - recommendations from alumnae.
Delta Gamma - recommendations from alumnae.
Delta Zeta - recommendations from actives and alumnae.
Gamma Phi Beta – anyone may write a recommendation; alumnae may recommend.
Kappa Alpha Theta - anyone may write a recommendation; alumnae may recommend.
Kappa Delta - recommendations from actives and alumnae.
Kappa Kappa Gamma – recommendations from actives and alumnae.
Pi Beta Phi – recommendations from alumnae. May change after convention.
Zeta Tau Alpha – recommendations from alumnae.
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Give me a call when she's a senior in high school!

The early bird gets the worm! I can't wait till the 12th hour and expect her to get in to a top tier chapter!
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