Dirty Rushing

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by Titchou

As a former Membership Adviser for more than one chapter and now serving on an NPC committee, the FSA at the school should report the chapter its national HQ. I would also say that the PNM (your daughter)should file a recruitment infraction against the group but I know she won't do it...from what you have said....as she would have to admit to having asked the question and all the campus would know -if they don't already. I think you have done all you can do. Anything else is up to your daughter.

May I add that if your daughter reports an infraction anywhere, she better be absolutely certain of the exact words used by the actives who "dirty rushed" her. That allegation is not taken lightly. There are very specific things that can and cannot be said. They may have tip toed right UP to the line, but may not have crossed it. Before getting anyone in trouble, it is important that the facts and specific statements are accurate.

Thank you for your response. Yes you are correct. They did cross the line but I do not believe it was intentional however it did mislead her and sway her decisions during rush. She has so many friends in the sorority everyone is aware of what was said. An older officer has apologized to my daughter for the situation so I think we will leave it at that for now and see what happens the next couple of days.