Examples for Sisterhood Workshop

[NYCMS]

In general I think could be a useful thing, but one issue I see with your post is that all those statements presume things. And people, in my experience, don't respond well if you approach them when you presume something.

Example: Family issues going on. The member might be sensitive about whatever is going on - that is, IF something is going on - and approaching her could present a new problem.

Example: Member acting "inappropriately". That has to be defined because what you think is inappropriate - even flirting with another person's boyfriend - might not be seen as inappropriate by others. Or maybe her way of chatting up a guy isn't actually flirting in the way you think it is.

I agree with another poster about making questions open-ended but I think you might also want to consider that your examples presume things. I think this might be better done with a communications expert/mental health professional who's a skilled facilitator.

Lastly, have you asked the chapter if they want this specific type of workshop?

[Theta1234]

Hmmm...what if instead of giving scenarios, you present them with value propositions.

Like, what does it mean to love your sisters? What does it look like when you judge someone? If you have a concern over a sister’s actions, how can you show love and concern without appearing condescending or as if you were judging her? Practice words of affirmation and support. That brings sisters together.

Now, there are some serious issues encountered by sisters. What if together y’all put together a “help boook” that specifically outlines resources for various situations—something that goes a bit beyond “call the college counseling center.” There is nothing like helping one another to bring girls together. Plus, you could outline the structure in you national organization. And show the girls how there can be help beyond just their exec or standards board.

Kudos on doing this. I hope your chapter comes together like never before.