Dilemma - to be in friend's wedding, or not

[AnchorAlumna]

I'm going to take the opposite side.
You're not marrying his fiancee; he is.
You're there to support the groom. And Lord knows, he may need a lot of support.

[OPhiAGinger]

I'm with Anchor Alum. Standing up with him means you support YOUR FRIEND, not that you endorse the wedding. Because basically unless he comes to you and asks you directly if you think this marriage is a good idea... only then do you offer your opinion. He has already expressed his opinion by proposing (or accepting the proposal if she was the one who pitched) but if he's a good friend, stand by him. If/when this union hits the skids, he needs to know who his friends are.