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Originally Posted by pnm201
Hi! I'm in a sticky situation, and I'm really not sure what to do.
In the end, I accepted a bid from the house who dirty rushed me earlier. But for some reason I just felt a lot of dread that continued throughout the few months. My anxiety was getting the best of me, and I couldn't make it work.
When you go to a school where the majority of social life is Greek, its hard to be social. I know I need to find my niche and I thought I would find it in my sorority but I didn't, and now I feel like I'm drowning.
I'm to the point where I just want to transfer. I'm miserable because I can't find my place on campus. I feel lost, and I just have no idea how to move forward, accepting the mistakes I've already made.
...advice on how to fix this mess going forward. Thank you.
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First: I agree with what 33girl said about you taking those texts to your school Greek Life director.
Next: You did the right thing by not accepting the separate party invite. When you felt agitation and regret that you had pledged that same group, you left it before initiating.
Now: Will the other groups on campus want you next semester, since you came from 'that dirty rushing group'?
Don't sweat what you can't change. You left that situation. Releasing your texts to the Greek Life director will not get you put on the Blabbermouth Rushee blacklist since it does not exist.
NPC Sororities work hard to rush and pledge women fairly and objectively. They work together for the betterment of college women. You will be able to re-rush next Fall with clear conscience.
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