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Old 11-09-2015, 02:38 PM
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One consequence of getting recs from real women is the conversation that happens as the rec writer gets information on the rushee. It builds conversation skills and might help your daughter learn how to talk about herself. While I am NOT a fan of the rec process, that is one helpful byproduct.

My best advice to you is start preparing her now for the inevitable fact that she will get cut by chapters. She needs to be prepared for that and understand that she needs to stick with the process, regardless how hurt she is or certain that she has no chance at happiness at the horrendous chapters she has left. Because trust me, they're all just fine. Caught up in the moment, she will have a ranking of 1 to 5 and she will be certain her life will be over if she gets "stuck" with #5. It's all but impossible to escape that feeling but after rush is over virtually all of that goes away. Poof! It's just the bubble that is rush.
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