re-reushing as a sophomore transfer and terrified

[DubaiSis]

I do not have high hopes for you. And not because your chances for placement are bad - you've proven you can get a bid - but because you can't be made happy. You have Unicorns Pooping Rainbows Syndrome and no sorority or group of women or group of friends can live up to the standard you have set. You are first and foremost choosing a group of FRIENDS. I don't know about you, but I have friends who are varying levels of pretty, smart, successful, etc. If I dumped them as soon as they showed themselves to be human I would spend a great deal of time alone.

[xibair]

[ I don't know about you, but I have friends who are varying levels of pretty, smart, successful, etc. If I dumped them as soon as they showed themselves to be human I would spend a great deal of time alone.[/QUOTE]

Amen Sister.

No matter how smart, talented, rich, or cool you believe you are, how you treat people tells all. Integrity is everything. (quoted by inspire.)

[kooklaa]

Originally Posted by DubaiSis

I do not have high hopes for you. And not because your chances for placement are bad - you've proven you can get a bid - but because you can't be made happy. You have Unicorns Pooping Rainbows Syndrome and no sorority or group of women or group of friends can live up to the standard you have set. You are first and foremost choosing a group of FRIENDS. I don't know about you, but I have friends who are varying levels of pretty, smart, successful, etc. If I dumped them as soon as they showed themselves to be human I would spend a great deal of time alone.

I didn't "dump" anyone. They woman in both houses all had wonderful characteristics, but that doesn't mean that we meshed well and would make great sisters. I realized that and that's why I dropped. I'm not saying they aren't good people with redeeming qualities. We just didn't click as friends, something realized in both ends

[ConfettiCupcake]

Originally Posted by kooklaa

.....something realized in both ends

There is more to this story. Not that it matters that much I guess if you have decided to really try to make it work this next time, but I have a feeling that they were as unhappy with you as you were with them and that is probably the part of all of this that you need to sit with.