A sensitive question

[Lil_ChiO_Lady]

I was asked that same question last semester from a girl who was thinking of rushing and it caught me off guard actually.I told her that it didn't matter...what does color have to do with the person who I enjoy their company and get along with. In high school I was with every crowd and it's b/c I love the differences in each and learning from eachother was the best benefit in my life. I am soo open-minded about other ethnicities, and that is with every Greek sorority.

I have sooo many friends who are minorities and being a minority(I am Puerto Rican) I see where you are comming from and unfortunatly we have only one african-american who happens to be my Grand-Lil and I love her dearly.I rushed her last spring and I knew this girl would bring something to our chapter.My sisters instantly fell in love with her and of course she is a sister now.

I do notice though that very very lil african -americans go through formal rush.I think it is concerns that you have,are concerns of other girls who don't want to take the chance of maybe getting rejected. It is sad that some ppl think that way and being the person I am. Heck I am going to go up to a girl with a good head on her shoulders,independent and someone with a great sense of humor.I know the same of my Chi-O sisters and other chapters around the country, who look for the same.

I wish you much luck with rush and just be yourself and the person you are and either way there should be no color issue.Sorry for the Novel.I get carried away,lol.