Forbes: Drunk Female Guests Gravest Threat to Fraternaties

[DrPhil]

I agree that discussing alcohol is a surface topic.

However it is inaccurate to characterize the perpetrators of sexual assault and rape (with and without alcohol) as losers who can't get consensual sex. That is typically not true. Such characterization is "masculinity shaming" that pretends the root of this behavior is sex. Instead, root correlates of this behavior are power and misconceptions regarding gender, sexual orientation, and sexuality.

Equally as annoying as slut shaming or victim blaming is making women perpetual victims. We need to do away with the notion of women as nothing more than "walking tits, ass, and wombs". We also need to do away with the notion of women as actual or eventual victims.

Discrepancies in power and misconceptions regarding gender, sexual orientation, and sexuality will persist as long as women are told they are always victims; and as long as people pretend "no means no" is always so transparent.