NALFO/NPC

[Jinxy13]

I know that no one here can give a definitive answer, I guess I just want to know what the NPC greek community's general opinion on this is. Obviously I wouldn't lie if they asked about it, but I'm wondering if it would be bad if I didn't outright give this information without being asked. Either the sisters would think I was being deceitful or they think that it's irrelevant information and that's what I'm trying to determine as to not step on any toes.

I understand there is a big stigma attached to crossing between NPC and NPHC, but I was unsure about NALFO since it's less talked about.

[DrPhil]

Whether there is a stigma varies by campus and by circumstances.

It can vary by GLO practices. It can also vary by the racial climate of the campus. And it can vary by how you, yourself, have expressed your racial and ethnic identity while on campus.

[33girl]

If you tell, the worst thing that can happen is you don't get a bid.

If you don't tell, the worst thing that can happen is you become ostracized from your new group because they don't know what else you lied about.

Unless you want to spend your entire college career waiting for the other shoe to drop, I would come clean. Colonizing rush often involves older volunteers from the national sorority. You may find it easier to discuss your situation with one of these ladies than someone your own age.