D has a full schedule, but lost 2 favorites. She's feeling more rested and relaxed today. She has really been looking forward to this round. I'm hoping she can move forward without worrying about the why's of what she didn't get.
And in case you're interested to know - she was kept by the one where she didn't have a rec.
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Where she did not obtain a rec ahead of time....
She may have one and not know until bid day
I just dont want girls to think more or less about any one group because they got invited back and they did not have a rec. They might have one they did not know about
Yep, you never know what recs or letters of support might be lurking in the background.
After I pledged and found out you had to have a rec to receive a bid, said, "but I didn't HAVE one!". "Oh yes you did", and then the actives named two women, one a teacher at my HS, and the other, the mom of one of my male friends, both alums of the chapter who at that time, wrote the recs for all the girls from my HS. Didn't even know they were sorority women.
Hybrid Mode
