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09-30-2014, 06:49 PM
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This person is still logging in. I wonder why she's chosen to not post the end of her story.
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10-01-2014, 09:06 AM
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This person is still logging in. I wonder why she's chosen to not post the end of her story.
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There may not have been a happy ending. Hopefully that's not the case, though.
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10-01-2014, 11:17 AM
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Bid Day has come and gone!! I don't want to give away any spoilers, but I will say that I am wearing a new shirt today! Under some advisement, I have decided to wait until next week to post my story. Just a precaution since I don't want to unintentionally upset anyone. So I will post it real time as it happened last week, next week!
I'm very excited to share my story with all of you!!
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There may not have been a happy ending. Hopefully that's not the case, though.
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Happy Ending in real life. No ending to this story....
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10-01-2014, 12:20 PM
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Happy Ending in real life. No ending to this story....
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Well, it's obvious I hadn't had my morning coffee yet when I wrote that.  Thanks, ComradesTrue.
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10-01-2014, 01:10 PM
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Happy Ending in real life. No ending to this story....
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Unless something negative happened [in her new member experience] before she could finish the story.
I just don't get why someone would continue to log in, but not finish the story.
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10-01-2014, 06:50 PM
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Unless something negative happened [in her new member experience] before she could finish the story.
I just don't get why someone would continue to log in, but not finish the story. 
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If someone knows the answer and it's not a 'secret' prohibition: Might she be discouraged from posting by her NPC group because she is not yet initiated?
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08-28-2014, 03:01 PM
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Congratulations!
Will be looking forward to reading your story next week.
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09-05-2014, 10:23 PM
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Part Two: Orientation and my Amazing Rho Gamma!
In my past week of being in my new city before recruitment started the weather has been perfect, sunny, pleasant and bright. Then this morning, the morning of orientation I woke up and looked out the window to see a dark grey day, wet but not rainy. On my way to class it felt like I was constantly walking through a mist! Not enough for an umbrella, but enough for it to be both unpleasant and very bad for the fate of my hair. All day I just thought, thats just my luck! Especially seeing as how I have an appointment for airbrush tanning a couple hours before orientation, I don’t know how the tan will every dry in this weather!
Orientation was held in one of the schools big auditoriums, and it was full. Like, really full. The sound of girls talking though out the hall gave the impression that auditorium was not full of girls, but full of twittering birds. All the girls sitting around me were freshmen, it made me feel absolutely ancient! My nerves were building as information began. Most of the actual information they gave I already knew, but then they played a video. It was a video produced my the Panhellenic national council, dare me to move was playing in the background. I was watching this video, when I suddenly realized my eyes were tearing up! I was so moved by the video, the words on the screen, the music, my own excitement and apprehension. I couldn't believe that I was actually crying, and recruitment hadn't even started yet!
I pulled myself together to meet my Rho Gamma’s and my Rho Gamma group! They talked and introduced themselves and we introduced ourselves to each other. I met another girl who was a sophomore also, we commiserated on how incredibly old we both felt. But the highlight of my night was meeting one of my Rho Gammas, for the purpose of this thread I shall call her Tinkerbelle! Tinkerbelle and I are kindred spirits, after everything was over I went up to ask them a couple questions and we hit it off right away! I absolutely love Tinkerbelle and I am secretly hoping that she is a really a Cinderella… and that I might be a Cinderella as well.
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08-28-2014, 05:07 PM
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You will write a great story. I like description that you are wearing a new shirt! Congrats!
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09-09-2014, 02:48 AM
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Part Five: Skit Night
I waited anxiously all day for my party schedule, hoping and praying that I had been invited back to all five, but specifically to Anna. I couldn't keep my mind off it! Finally a mere hour and a half before my first party I got the message. It read:
Rapunzel
Snow White
Merida
My heart dropped. I felt sick. Anna had dropped me. Anna, had dropped me! I couldn't comprehend it, it was what I had dreaded and prayed with all my might wouldn't happen. I tried to look on the bright side, I still had Rapunzel! But no matter how much I tried to think about how much I had loved them yesterday my mind kept coming back to Anna and Elsa. Why did they drop me? Why didn't they like me? What did I do wrong? Questions kept rolling though my mind and I couldn't seem to stop them
I went to my first party at Rapunzel in the rain, it matched my gloomy mood. I was having a hard time shaking off my funk! Then they came out, all the girls in their skit outfits, smiling so warmly at us. I looked at them and remembered how much I had really enjoyed my time at Rapunzel the day before. I had a big smile on my face as I was lead into the house and sat down to watch their skit. I adored it! It was adorable, genuine and had an amazing theme. The girls were all so talented! I continued to talk to the same girl who had taken me in for the rest of the party, she was really sweet and excited about her house. As she lead me out she told me I reminded her of many of her sisters, I smiled ear to ear and told her that I really hoped I would see her tomorrow. I left Rapunzel glowing, I had a new hope that I could find my home in another house other than Anna.
I walked off to Show White, it was still raining outside but my mood was much improved. Snow White has been an underdog so far in my rush experience. They were nice everyday, fine, but not particularly special. Today I found something special in them: their sisterhood. They were so strong together! They had a great, diverse group of girls. They may not be the top dogs on campus, but they seem to really enjoy each others company. Their skit was a bit of a mess even! But they were having so much fun with it that I didn't really mind. Even though I hadn't been exactly thrilled with them the past could days, they kept inviting me back. I left thinking that they must see something in me, so I should open my heart to them.
Last I went to Merida. Merida had a really excellent skit! It was hilarious and really fit their personalities. I was laughing the whole time! I also enjoyed talking to the girls I did. I had a very good time at this house tonight, but I thought that Snow White had eclipsed Merida tonight.
I went to do my (useless) voting and I saw Tinkerbelle. When she saw me she walked up to me and asked how I was doing, I had told her that I was cut by Anna. Earlier in the day I had also done some digging, Tinkerbelle was an Anna. She came up and seemed genuinely concerned, she told me she was so surprised when she heard the news and that recruitment could be brutal. She gave me a hug and the tears started coming, everything hit me again. Next thing I knew I was crying in front of Tinkerbelle and all of the other girls voting in the large room. The tears felt like they came out of no where, but they seemed right at the time. It hit me that Anna had cut me and that Rapunzel could likely cut me tomorrow.
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09-09-2014, 09:11 AM
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I waited anxiously all day for my party schedule, hoping and praying that I had been invited back to all five, but specifically to Anna. I couldn't keep my mind off it! Finally a mere hour and a half before my first party I got the message. It read:
Rapunzel
Snow White
Merida
My heart dropped. I felt sick. Anna had dropped me. Anna, had dropped me! I couldn't comprehend it, it was what I had dreaded and prayed with all my might wouldn't happen. I tried to look on the bright side, I still had Rapunzel! But no matter how much I tried to think about how much I had loved them yesterday my mind kept coming back to Anna and Elsa. Why did they drop me? Why didn't they like me? What did I do wrong? Questions kept rolling though my mind and I couldn't seem to stop them
I went to my first party at Rapunzel in the rain, it matched my gloomy mood. I was having a hard time shaking off my funk! Then they came out, all the girls in their skit outfits, smiling so warmly at us. I looked at them and remembered how much I had really enjoyed my time at Rapunzel the day before. I had a big smile on my face as I was lead into the house and sat down to watch their skit. I adored it! It was adorable, genuine and had an amazing theme. The girls were all so talented! I continued to talk to the same girl who had taken me in for the rest of the party, she was really sweet and excited about her house. As she lead me out she told me I reminded her of many of her sisters, I smiled ear to ear and told her that I really hoped I would see her tomorrow. I left Rapunzel glowing, I had a new hope that I could find my home in another house other than Anna.
I walked off to Show White, it was still raining outside but my mood was much improved. Snow White has been an underdog so far in my rush experience. They were nice everyday, fine, but not particularly special. Today I found something special in them: their sisterhood. They were so strong together! They had a great, diverse group of girls. They may not be the top dogs on campus, but they seem to really enjoy each others company. Their skit was a bit of a mess even! But they were having so much fun with it that I didn't really mind. Even though I hadn't been exactly thrilled with them the past could days, they kept inviting me back. I left thinking that they must see something in me, so I should open my heart to them.
Last I went to Merida. Merida had a really excellent skit! It was hilarious and really fit their personalities. I was laughing the whole time! I also enjoyed talking to the girls I did. I had a very good time at this house tonight, but I thought that Snow White had eclipsed Merida tonight.
I went to do my (useless) voting and I saw Tinkerbelle. When she saw me she walked up to me and asked how I was doing, I had told her that I was cut by Anna. Earlier in the day I had also done some digging, Tinkerbelle was an Anna. She came up and seemed genuinely concerned, she told me she was so surprised when she heard the news and that recruitment could be brutal. She gave me a hug and the tears started coming, everything hit me again. Next thing I knew I was crying in front of Tinkerbelle and all of the other girls voting in the large room. The tears felt like they came out of no where, but they seemed right at the time. It hit me that Anna had cut me and that Rapunzel could likely cut me tomorrow.
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Oh no!! I hope not. I am so impressed that you gathered your wits after you received your invitation list and that you enjoyed yourself at all three sororities. I hope after your cry-and who doesn't need a good cry every now and then?- that you felt better and that you were able to appreciate what a great time you had at your parties. As we always say on GC, concentrate on the ones who invited you back. They really, really wanted to see you again!
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09-09-2014, 10:58 AM
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You poor thing. You were really doing your best and maintaining a great attitude! Recruitment can be so stressful.
So glad you found a home! You really have your head on your shoulders. I am sure that you are a fabulous addition to your chapter. I can't wait to hear where you ended up!
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09-02-2014, 02:01 PM
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Part One: Pre-Recruitment, "Meet The Greeks"
Today was an event officially called Meet the Greeks, but is known more as ‘Your REAL First Impression.’ This is a great event, for the girls who don’t know if they are going to rush make the last minute decision. But, for girls like me who already know they are doing recruitment it is the unofficial first day of recruitment. Its a way to make a good first impression on the different houses! They have already received my letters of recommendation, so this was my first chance to connect the person to the packet. It doesn't hurt you if you don’t get to a few of the booths, but the ones you do talk to count. So here it goes!
I started off talking to Rapunzel, I was a bit nervous about how to approach the booths, since they were out in the quad with people just walking by. The girls also seemed to be deep in conversations with themselves. But, when I walked by Rapunzel they pulled me right over! The conversation was really easy and seemed to just flow. I loved the girls I talked to and they seemed to really like me also. I was happy to be talking to them and I felt like they were happy to be talking to me!
Next I went over to Aurora. I wanted to be sure I talked to Aurora and Cinderella to kind of see what they were like in person! One of my roommates is an Aurora, and I’ve found that she is really sweet and I really like her. Unfortunately I just didn't get the greatest feeling for the girls at the Aurora booth. I just didn't really feel a connection, the girls I talked to the most seemed very disinterested wight he whole thing and talked like a TV host. Over all I thought they were a lot nicer then people made them sound, but I just didn’t get a great feeling leaving them.
Cinderella- After how it went with Aurora I was a bit more nervous to talk to talk to these girls. Everyone at the booth was very put together and they all looked beautiful! When I walked over three girls swarmed me immediately, it was great! These were the best conversations I had all day. We had a lot in common and it just seemed like I really fit with these girls. We commiserated on a certain contestant being sent home from a competition series, expelled on our shared devotion to dance and debated the various pro’s and con’s of wearing white and headbands during recruitment. After today I am super excited to see them at recruitment!
Elsa- This was the house I had dreamed of, wondered about and semi-obbessedly pictured myself as. It had been the picture in my mind since I was a kid, so I couldn't really help it! Thats why I was so disappointed by today, I had walked by them and even stepped up to their booth! But they never paid one bit of attention to me, not only to me but to any of the other girls who were buzzing around them. Over the entire time I was at the Meet, I never saw them do anything but chat animatedly to each other and take selfies. Not a bad way to spend an afternoon, but really disappointing to me and I’m sure to the other hopeful PNMs in attendance. However, I will say that I did have some really good interactions with a group of them earlier in the week when they had had a philanthropy sale booth up on campus.
Merida- It was interesting to see the difference between the Merida’s at my new school and at my old school. At my old school they were all very cool and hip, on top of trends, different types of interesting. They were everywhere and knew everyone. At my new school, even tho every sorority girl has been wearing lettered shirts each day, I hadn't seen a single Merida on campus! The girls at the Meet were very nice and seemed very excited to be meeting the PNM’s around, they just didn't seem all that interesting or interested. Very nice, but I’m not so sure I would fit in.
Belle- While I was speaking to the other chapters, I found my eyes being drawn to the Belles! They all seems to be having a really great time together and with the PNMs around. They were playing music very loud, lots of spice girls, and their booth was very bright. It just looked like a fun place to be! When I went over to talk to them they were all extremely enthusiastic, they were really fun to talk to and seemed like they would be a fun group of girls to be around!
Anna- Unfortunately, when I got to the Anna’s booth I looked at my watch and noticed that my class had just started. I had spent so much time at the Rapunzel and Cinderella booths that I had gone over my allotted hour and a half to spend at the Meet the Greeks! Since I was already at the Anna booth I quickly said hello to the girls, they introduced themselves and we exchanged some quick notes on recruitment excitement and the start of the year. It was a nice little conversation, but I didn't get much of a sense of them and I don’t think they got a sense of me either.
Unfortunately, as I was almost ten minutes late to class when I left the Anna booth, I didn't get a chance to visit the the Snow Whites or Ariels. I was disappointed that my poor time management skills prevented me from checking out these two booths, but I didn't want to miss any more class then I was already missing.
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Party Three: First Datebook
A chilly morning, I woke up before the sun had risen and I couldn't contain my excitement! It was finally here, the first day of recruitment! They day where I would meet so many wonderful girls and my potential future home! I got to the meeting spot and there were girls clutching coffees and chatting anxiously to one another. I met up with my Rho Gamma group and it was time to begin!
My first house was Aurora, we stood outside their gargantuan house for almost ten minutes until they talked out. In perfect order and togetherness they stepped out two by two, made eye contact with one of us and took us inside. I talked to two great girls! The conversation seemed really easy and it just flowed. We had so many things in common, it was just easy. Then they began their song, and wow! The noise was so great and loud, I almost started to cry! I was to moved by everything happening around me. I didn't think I would, but I really loved Aurora! They were great and I really hope I get to see them again tomorrow.
The Merida and Cinderella houses are right by one another, I felt my heart when I saw the Cinderella house, it was the most beautiful piece of architecture I had ever seen. Then we talked by the Cinderella house and stopped at the Merida house. The whole time they were taking girls into the house I was looking jealously over at the girls being led into the Cinderella house, wondering when it would be my turn. I was double rushed at this house, the other PNM with my was quite a dud. They kept switching us out with a new girl every couple minutes! It made the conversations really choppy and I didn't get to connect with any of the girls. Right before they sat us down for their song, the Vice President of Membership came and talked to me! That was pretty cool. While I wouldn't mind going back to this house, I just didn't get the same feeling I had had at Aurora!
Next it was off to Anna, I didn’t know anything about this house, so I had no idea what to expect! What I didn't expect, was that I would fall in love. I felt so great at Anna, the girls were really cool and totally my style. So many people were complementing me on my outfit. I just felt really at home with them and in their house. Their songs were awesome and their moves were really in synch. I thought the floor might break they jumped so much! I didn't want to go when he party was over, all I wanted to do was to stay in their and keep talking with them. I will be so devastated if Anna isn't on my party list tomorrow, I really hope they liked me as much as I liked them!
We had a break then, Cinderella! I was so excited to be at Cinderella, the girls I talked to there where really great and they had a crazy cute video! I connected really well with the girls I talked to, we had really similar interests. I really really like Cinderella, but after their party I didn't leave with the same glow I had after leaving Anna.
Then Snow White, I was picked up by a girl who looked a little dazed. If that makes any sense. She didn't really seem to be in the moment, I’m sure she was just really tired but it wasn't a great start. The second girl I talked to a lot more, she had rushed as a sophomore as well! It was great to hear her experience. There were a lot of alumni milling around this chapter, they seen to be a smaller group, so alumni were doing things that girls had been doing at the other houses. Like with Merida, I wouldn't mind seeing them tomorrow at all, I just didn't really click with them.
I was really happy to be at Ariel next! They had a really different ways of taking us into the house, it was really fun and made everything seem like a party. Again I met crazy great girls! The conversation was really easy and fun and they seemed to be really happy to be talking to us. Their house was really old and beautiful inside, it almost looked like it came from a story book. Their songs were really fun and cute! I can totally see myself being an Ariel.
I had a bit of a trek to get to Belle from Ariel. The girl who picked me up first was one of the ones I had talked to during Meet the Greeks! She remembered me and the conversation we had then. I really loved the girls I talked to at this house and they had the cutest song and chant of the day! It was really clean and so memorable. I am hoping that I see Belle on my schedule for tomorrow!
I had been looking forward to Rapunzel all day! I was so excited to be there, but unfortunately it did not go great. I was one of the last girls called and I was paired with another PNM. The other girl immediately asked to use the restroom, so the active and I stood awkwardly in the hall outside the bathroom while all the other groupings were spread out outside and in the living room. When the other girl finally came out we were outside for less than ten minutes before the girl brought us into the other room to watch their perform an then to be led out. I only got to talk to one girl and the other PNM I was with was dragging everything down. I was so disappointed! I would like to go to Rapunzel again, but I am unconvinced that I will be invited back.
The last house I went to was Elsa. I was feeling the pain in my feet and starting to get very tired when I made it over to Elsa, but after what had just happened at Rapunzel I was determined to have a goo time at Elsa. Happily, I did! The girls I talked to were till really bubbly even after their long day and they seemed to like me as well! When they got to their performance, it was just as energetic as if it was the first party! They looked like they were having the most fun of the day, they were basically just having a big dance party with each other. I really wanted to join in with them!
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