Friend hook-ups.....is there anyway to get things back to normal after the fact?

[thetakates]

Ok, do any of you ladies out there ever hook up with someone and then feel really bad because they totally diss you afterward? I am really good friends with this guy and we have had sexual feelings toward each other for a long time. I want a relationship, but he didnt and i understood. Well he was a virgin and I felt that I didnt want to take it away from him.I have been with a few guys and feel that I dont want to be a slut just becuase I have had sex before and now take it away from him. But I did and now I feel horrible, becasue a) he doesnt want a relationship and b) he kind of has treated me like shit after I did have sex with him and c)he was a virgin and I have never done that before.

I hate having random sex and that is what this is beginning to feel like now! He is totally ignoring me and now it seems like the only reason we were frineds in the first place is becuse some how he "knew" that I would take it away from him!

Please someone just make me feel better and tell me that things are going to be ok.