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Big/little match issues
I may just be having a rough day, but we were given our little offers late last night. We had a really big pledge class and there were twins with everyone taking a little, so even though I wasn't exactly estatic with who I got I felt I couldn't say no. But I've been thinking and having anxiety about it all day.
See, I talked to all of our new members a lot except for a few girls who always seemed mia when I was around - this is one of the girls I didn't talk to. Additionally, I've been social media stalking her all day and we really have NOTHING in common. She played sports, is way into sports, likes completely different tv shows, movies, and music genres, is really into drama, and doesn't seem to enjoy the same things I do at all.
I'm not trying to be superficial here, but I don't see how I can be a great big to her at all. I have a feeling she didn't even pref me as a big - like I wouldn't even know who this girl was if I wasn't at nme last week! The only thing we have in common is our major and that's not saying much as I'm not friends with everybody who has the same major as me!
I don't know if I should try talking to the girls who did the big little pairings or just suck it up and do my best to be amazing. Honestly at this point I dont know if there is anything that can be changed. I'd really rather not have a little this semester than be a terrible big though.
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