Everything MU2Driver said but especially this:
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Originally Posted by MU2Driver
No eye contact, no responsiveness beyond one word answers and grunts, no questions, no expressions of interest of any kind resulted in a painfully long 20 minutes for my already exhausted DD, and not a very high score for the PNM. There are multiple explanations for this, none of them acceptable. Maybe she is a quintuple Ole Miss chapter legacy and a direct descendent of a Founder of ABC, but still. The actives know about these situations and/or that the PNMs are under a lot of pressure, but part of maturity is to hold up your end of the conversational bargain anyway. As Dr. Sheldon Cooper (TBBT) might say, "It's a non-optional social convention."
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All PNMs need to know that the Ole Miss Chapters share this information with each other. Don't even begin to think that being rude to one or more chapters will be kept under wraps. The actives have three weeks to share all sorts if information with all of their friends in the other houses. There is absolutely no excuse for being rude as a guest in someone's home, unless of course you are in an ICU bed or under very strong sedating medication. Then, and just then, it might be excusable.
Frankly, if your are rude to me, well then you've just told me more about your family than I personally care to know.
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