Accepting a bid, but postponing pledging?

[AOII Angel]

I think you CAN do this, but my question is WHY would you offer a bid to someone who does not have the finances? If they save money and feel they can afford it at a later date, tell them to come back through. What happens if they don't get enough money? Are you expected to hold their spot? I wouldn't count my chickens before they hatch, but I might sit on those eggs and nurture them a little.

[AXiDTrish]

In spring, both chapters hold a mini recruitment/COB week of their own. Very relaxed. COB on this campus is like pulling teeth. I am in agreement with all of you, I would rather not bid the women until spring or when/if ever. Now, is there a good message that chapter women (who may not see the whole picture even if I explain it 3 times) can communicate to PNMs without looking like stuck up snobs. That's really what I looking for.

I am curious if anyone has had to deal with this before too....

[AXiDTrish]

Also, if this really isn't done or recommended when it's allowed, why would NPC allow it?