I think I made a mistake.

[Titchou]

Since you are now an alum, I don't see the point in resigning your membership - unless it's to "make a statement" and it wouldn't really do that anyway. Why not just fade away like so many alums do? Just don't respond to anything.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Titchou

Since you are now an alum, I don't see the point in resigning your membership - unless it's to "make a statement" and it wouldn't really do that anyway. Why not just fade away like so many alums do?

Because I get the feeling that she thinks if she resigns she'll be free and clear to pledge an NPHC.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Because I get the feeling that she thinks if she resigns she'll be free and clear to pledge an NPHC.

You can't do that, right? I thought that you can't be both NPC and NPHC. You have to choose and once you choose, you're done.

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by KDCat

You can't do that, right? I thought that you can't be both NPC and NPHC. You have to choose and once you choose, you're done.

exactly... unless you lie.

[KDCat]

Originally Posted by thetalady

exactly... unless you lie.

So there's nothing to do about the "wrong choice." She can let it go or wallow.

[GreekRegret]

I appreciate the advice I've been given. I dont think that if I resign i will be free to pledge an NPHC group. I said that I had seen a thread on here where it said it might be "technically" possible, but I wasnt sure of the process anyway. I doubted the likelihood of that being allowed from the beginning. I am focusing on my grades at this point. They werent too bad, just not up to my normal standards. These are just thoughts that I wanted feedback on. I didnt come here to rile anyone up. Also despite how it may seem, I was serious about never lying about my former affiliations in the event that i resigned and someone asked me for whatever purpose. I did a thing and feel it was a mistake. I'm not ashamed about it, I just don't want to make any of the women who are in the organization upset at this point. Well, not at any point. Like I said, my feelings may change...but I don't think they will.