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Might I also add that a lot has changed in the Greek world since your mother went through. It is often hard for alumnae to accept that things are not the same as when they were collegians. Women often aren't given bids just because they are legacies anymore. Grades are a lot more important. The quality of PNMs (which your mom would have called rushees) has improved. The numer of PNMs has increased from when your mom went through recruitment, as well. RFM didn't exist until ~7 years ago and has changed the game. Mothers that don't keep up with current practices don't realize they are giving bad advice.
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